Before the Spreadsheet: The Sacred Questions
Build your financial plan around who you’re becoming
Financial planning is often treated like a sterile task—
all columns, no clarity.
But to me?
It’s sacred design.
Rooted in values. Anchored in truth. Overflowing with power.
They’ll tell you to start with a spreadsheet.
I say: start with your soul.
Because line items mean nothing
if they aren’t soaked in your longing.
If they don’t pulse with pleasure.
If they don’t hum in your bones like a yes so decadent it leaves you breathless.
This is not just a numbers game.
This is seduction.
This is spellwork.
This is sovereign design.
We’re not here to contort ourselves into someone else’s version of success.
We’re here to build cathedrals of capacity around our deepest desires.
Let’s be clear—strategy matters.
But it should never be the starting point.
First, we ask better questions:
What do you desire?
Not what’s practical.
Not what’s polite.
Not what society says you should want.
What you ache for.
What lights your body up from the inside out.
What has been quietly waiting behind your eyes, waiting for permission to become real.
Desire is not frivolous.
It’s divine intelligence.
Let it be velvet-lined, gold-drenched, wildly exquisite.
Let it drip with sensuality, with sovereignty, with sacred yes.
Let it ruin you for a life of settling.
What are you no longer willing to compromise on?
What would feel like homecoming in your nervous system?
What beauty, pleasure, or support have you been putting off until you’re “more ready”?
This is where your financial plan begins:
with the truth of your desire,
spoken aloud and unashamed.
You deserve every single desire in your heart
simply because you exist—
because it harms no one and honors everything.
And it feels really, really good.
What does overflow look like for your lineage?
When you win—who else gets to win with you?
This isn’t just your financial plan.
It’s your reparations plan.
Your Prosperity Ecosystem.
Your love letter to the past and your blueprint for the future.
Is it a house with enough bedrooms for everyone to stay?
Is it seed funding for your child’s first business?
Is it finally paying the healer who held your hand when you had nothing?
These aren’t extravagances.
They’re embodied care.
They’re sacred redistribution.
They’re the kind of luxury that heals generations and makes beauty feel like justice.
Who benefits from your abundance?
Because you are not the end point.
You are the portal.
The more resourced you are, the more you can build, create, ripple, revel.
So we ask:
Who gets hired when you thrive?
Who breathes easier when you’re rested?
Whose dreams get funded through your unapologetic yes?
And yes—you benefit.
First. Fully. Boldly. Without apology.
And it feels really, really good too.
Abundance isn’t selfish.
It’s sacred strategy.
It’s erotic alignment.
It’s a love story between you and your enoughness.
Now and only now—bring in the numbers.
Run the spreadsheets.
Chart the forecasts.
Map the plan that matches the voltage of your vision.
Build your pricing, your offers, your timelines
from the version of you who’s turned on by the truth of what’s possible.
The one who’s ready to be well paid and deeply met.
Not from panic.
Not from pleasing.
From power.
Because when your plan is built from your values,
your numbers stop being guesses
and start becoming a spell you cast on behalf of your own becoming.
Daily Affirmation:
I am a match for my desires.
I am worthy of luxurious overflow.
I design from my truth—and it feels really, really good.
PS:
Profit is protest.
And building a financial plan that seduces you into sovereignty?
That’s rebellion wrapped in velvet.
It starts not with a spreadsheet,
but with a sacred question.
Song of the Day: Smoke by Connor Price & Walker Hayes (added to playlist)